Friday, October 30, 2026

PANS/PANDAS

 

I recognize that my posts span a wide range of topics. Some are spurred by headlines, or what is going around. Some are utterly random or written on a whim.

Once in a while they are done by request.

This is one of those:

Hey Nurse Judy, Could you consider doing a post about PANS/PANDAS...

It took 2 years to get a diagnosis for our son. We are pretty sure that his case was strep driven after an especially hard year of strep exposures. An earlier diagnosis and treatment could have saved us years of frustration…”

I shared the email with Dr Ted and he emphatically agreed this was a subject worth tackling.

What on earth is it?

If you are completely unfamiliar with this topic, you are not alone. So many people have never heard of it and that is one of the reasons that it isn’t an obvious consideration if your child might be dealing with suspicious symptoms.

PANS (Pediatric Acute-onset Neuropsychiatric Syndrome), is a group of conditions that are still poorly understood. It describes acute neuropsychiatric changes in children following certain infections. It was first discovered following strep throat (PANDAS: Pediatric Autoimmune Neuropsychiatric Disorders Associated with Streptococcal Infections), but there’s mounting evidence that similar changes can occur in some children after other infections, like RSV or influenza.

“Neuropsychiatric” in this context most classically refers to tics and obsessive-compulsive-disorder (OCD) symptoms, but a whole host of behavioral changes have been described (below). The most classic story we hear is a child who has no psychiatric history, and the next day develops frequent blinking, head-twitching, has strong emotional reactivity, or other new behaviors.

Crucially, the change needs to be sudden and abrupt. It should feel like someone came in overnight and reprogrammed your child’s brain.

The definitive diagnosis is made with the following criteria:

  • Sudden OCD symptoms, or severely restrictive eating: Repetitive compulsions, severe fears, intrusive thoughts, or food refusal.

  • Additional neuropsychiatric symptoms: Abrupt and severe presentation from at least two of these domains:

    • Intense separation anxiety: Refuses to leave parents, school refusal, or intense worry.

    • Striking emotional dysregulation: Inconsolable crying, mood shifts, or depressive feelings.

    • Behavioral changes: Explosive tantrums, aggression, or marked irritability.

    • Developmental regression: Baby talk, clinginess, or acting like a much younger child.

    • Academic decline: Sudden deterioration in attention, focus, or school performance.

    • Motor or sensory changes: Tics, handwriting changes, motor restlessness, or sensory sensitivities.

    • Somatic changes: Sleep disruption, bedwetting, or new urinary frequency without infection.

  • Rule out other conditions: Presentation cannot be better accounted for by another medical or neurological condition.

Dr. Ted, frankly, believes that he has seen and successfully treated cases that did not meet this strict criteria. More on that later, but know that this is a quickly evolving landscape, and the PANS phenomenon may exist on a spectrum, where minor cases might not meet the threshold for treatment by major PANS centers. Bottom line: if you see sudden onset tics, it may be useful to ask your doctor if it is worth considering.

Getting listened to: Navigating the medical system

There are so many mysteries of the human body we haven’t yet figured out. And as much as we’d like medicine to have all the answers, the reality is that there are still plenty of conditions we’re only beginning to understand.

That uncertainty can be frustrating for everyone involved. Doctors are human, often working under enormous time constraints, and our healthcare system isn’t always designed to accommodate patients whose symptoms don’t fit neatly into a familiar diagnosis. When test results come back normal or symptoms don’t have an obvious explanation, it can be tempting to attribute them to anxiety or stress. And sometimes, anxiety really is part of the picture. But it shouldn’t automatically be the end of the conversation.

It’s also important to understand what different medical settings are equipped to do. The emergency room, for example, is designed to identify and stabilize immediate medical emergencies, not to investigate complex or chronic conditions. Being discharged from the ER doesn’t necessarily mean nothing is wrong. It means no emergency requiring intervention was identified at that moment. That’s an important distinction, especially for families who are understandably desperate for answers.

The challenge isn’t necessarily that individual doctors aren’t listening or don’t care. It’s that our healthcare system is often better equipped to address immediate, identifiable problems than to navigate the uncertainty of more complicated ones.

Our system is broken.

And managing that system, figuring out which specialists to see, getting referrals, and trying to connect the dots can be a nightmare.

Nurse Judy’s daughter Alana is a therapist, and offered to weigh in on this post. She’s also all too familiar with the medical gaslighting that comes with being told, “It must just be anxiety.”

After a lifetime of playing “stump the doctor,” and later developing Long COVID, she spent a lot of time trying to make sense of symptoms that weren’t easily explained, and finding a diagnosis of POTS (postural orthostatic tachycardia syndrome) finally gave her some answers, validation, and a clearer path toward managing her symptoms.

She often talks about how disheartening it is that we still treat physical and mental health as though they’re mutually exclusive. As a therapist, she’s the first to tell you that anxiety can cause very real physical symptoms. But she’s also quick to point out that having anxiety doesn’t mean something else isn’t going on.

And this is where advocating for your child becomes so important.

If your child suddenly develops anxiety, OCD symptoms, or dramatic behavioral changes, it’s reasonable for a doctor to consider psychological explanations. But those explanations shouldn’t automatically close the door on medical ones.

Alana encourages parents to come to appointments with a clear timeline of what they’ve observed, particularly when symptoms seem to have appeared abruptly or following an illness. Be specific about what’s changed, and don’t be afraid to ask questions. What else could explain these symptoms? What other possibilities should we be considering, and how can we explore them? If anxiety is part of the picture, could something physiological be contributing to it?

And perhaps most importantly, ask for a plan! Even when there isn’t a clear diagnosis, you should leave an appointment knowing what to watch for, when to follow up, and what might warrant further investigation or a specialist referral.

Approach advocacy as collaboration, not confrontation. The goal isn’t to convince a doctor that your child has PANS/PANDAS or to prove that someone is wrong. It’s to work together, stay curious, and make sure important possibilities aren’t overlooked.

You don’t need a doctor who has every answer. You need one who’s willing to keep asking questions with you.

What actually causes behavior changes in PANS?

The astute reader among us will note that many children develop strep throat in childhood (up to 30% of all children by some counts), but only a very tiny minority develop the behavioral symptoms listed above.

Why do some develop PANS/PANDAS and others do not? The short answer is we don’t know for sure.

High level science explanation warning! (Don’t worry, there won’t be a test)

One leading hypothesis is that, in certain susceptible children, an infection triggers an abnormal immune response that mistakenly targets parts of the brain involved in regulating behavior, emotions, and movement. This is sometimes referred to as molecular mimicry, where antibodies produced to fight an infection mistakenly recognize proteins in the child’s own tissues. Researchers have focused particularly on the basal ganglia, a region of the brain involved in movement, habits, and emotional regulation. Inflammation and disruptions in communication between brain cells could help explain why some children experience such sudden and dramatic changes in behavior.

However, it’s important to emphasize that this remains a hypothesis, not a proven explanation. Researchers have yet to consistently identify the specific antibodies, inflammatory markers, or immune mechanisms responsible, and the extent to which autoimmunity explains PANS/PANDAS remains an area of active scientific debate.

How is PANS treated?

The frustrating answer is that there isn’t one simple treatment that works for every child. There are things we can do now, and other treatments we are still trying to understand. Your child deserves help while we work through that uncertainty.

Treat an infection when there is one.

If a child has symptoms of strep throat and a positive strep test, we treat with the usual course of antibiotics. But antibiotics don’t treat every cause of PANS, and a past strep infection doesn’t automatically mean a child needs more antibiotics now. Long-term antibiotics have risks, and we don’t have enough evidence to recommend them routinely to prevent flares.

What about inflammation?

This is where you will hear different recommendations, even from experts. Some specialists use anti-inflammatory medicines such as naproxen or short courses of steroids in selected children. The evidence is limited, and these medicines have side effects; they should be considered with a clinician who can weigh the risks and follow the response. We have both seen good responses with this approach first-hand, but it’s not universal.

For severe cases that don’t respond to first-line treatment, there are now specialty clinics devoted to the advanced treatments of PANS. Stanford has a renowned Immune Behavioral Health Clinic.

Address potential mental health components

A child who is terrified, caught in rituals, or unable to attend school needs relief. Cognitive behavioral therapy (CBT), particularly exposure and response prevention (ERP) for OCD, can help children gradually face fears without getting trapped in compulsions. Sometimes medication, such as an SSRI for OCD or anxiety, is helpful too. These decisions should be individualized and monitored closely.

Accepting mental health care does not mean giving up on looking for a medical cause. We can do both. There is no reason to leave a child suffering while everyone debates the diagnosis.

Case Studies

We thought it might be helpful to see some real life examples of PANS/PANDAS to help get a sense of what things look like. 

5-year-old with sudden unexplained full body tics

A 5 year old previously healthy fully vaccinated boy came down with known RSV. About a week or two after testing positive, he developed sudden onset fully body motor tics. His whole body would have sudden single convulsions. They were never constant, just sudden single jumps, like he’d been shocked. At their peak they were happening every minute or so. This prompted an overnight admission to have an EEG and rule out seizure activity. When nothing was found, it was assumed to be a post-viral reaction. He was prescribed naproxen (Aleve) around the same time, and after a couple days he saw significant improvement. To everyone’s vast relief, they fully resolved after two weeks.

7-year-old with sudden behavioral changes

This one is a direct re-telling from one of Dr. Ted’s patients!

“Here’s a quick overview of our experience when our son was first experiencing PANDAS symptoms:

Right as he turned 7, he experienced what we thought was a minor headcold. His physical symptoms were congestion, cough, and sore throat. He never had a fever, not had any change in appetite or sleeping patterns. A week later we took our annual spring break trip to visit his grandparents and during that week it felt as if his behavior had changed overnight. Our normally very happy, easy-going, responsible, first born child was having huge disproportionate tantrums lasting for hours on end. He started flapping his arms at the dinner table, knocking over his milk cups. He would get so upset and angry - unlike anything we had seen before. I recall wondering if he had received a concussion from falling while climbing on logs on the beach - I was grasping at straws trying to find a reason for his behavior.

Following the trip, we spend the month of April back home with continued escalation of his volatility and anger over every day tasks. His handwriting in school significantly devolved, and he regressed with his nighttime accidents. I reached out to his pediatrician (hi Dr. Handler!) in late April, hoping for a referral to a child therapist. Based off of Dr. Handler’s knowledge of Luke’s baseline behavior and our reported notes, he brought Luke in to be swabbed for strep, which was positive on May 1, and an initial diagnosis of PANDAS was given.

Luke’s OCD behavior was minor and didn’t really fall on our radar until after his diagnosis. He would spend hours sorting his Pokemon cards, and would become very angry if interrupted and would cause disruptions to our schedule and every day life. He would become fixated on an arbitrary outcome (i.e., “destroy mom”) and would not be soothed or satisfied until that need was met or until he was able to come out of his rage, which would often take days.

We are 7 months into treatment, and we are seeing huge progress with a monthly steroid course and daily guanfacine.

10-year-old with new tics and OCD

Another healthy young boy without personal or family history of OCD or tics presented with new onset vocal tics (throat clearing) and OCD symptoms (counting and tapping behaviors). He also couldn’t remember a history of sore throat, but he tested positive for strep throat in the office. He was treated with amoxicillin and naproxen for 2 weeks and improved quickly.

As you can see there seems to be a large spectrum.

What can parents do at home?

Alana emphasizes that even when symptoms have a physiological trigger, how we respond to them psychologically and behaviorally still matters.

When your child is struggling, your instinct is to do whatever you can to make them feel better. And of course it is. But sometimes, the things we do out of love can unintentionally reinforce the very symptoms we’re trying to help.

OCD is a particularly good example.

If a child suddenly develops an overwhelming fear of contamination, they might repeatedly ask whether their hands are clean, whether their food is safe, or whether something terrible will happen if they touch something.

Naturally, a parent wants to reassure them.

And that reassurance works! At least for a little while.

But then the question comes again. And again.

Repeated reassurance can become part of the compulsion itself. It provides immediate relief, but it can also teach the brain that uncertainty is dangerous and that reassurance is necessary to feel safe. Over time, that cycle can become more entrenched.

This matters regardless of what initially triggered the symptoms.

If an infection or immune response contributed to the sudden onset of OCD, addressing the underlying medical process may be important. But the behavioral patterns that develop around those symptoms deserve attention too.

So what does that actually look like for parents?

Instead of answering “Are you sure I’m not going to get sick?” for the tenth time, a parent might say, “I can see how scary that feels. We’ve talked about this, and I know your brain wants another answer. Let’s practice sitting with not knowing for a moment. I’m right here with you.”

It’s a small but meaningful distinction. You’re validating the distress without participating in the compulsion.

The same applies to avoidance. If a child becomes terrified of separating from a parent, avoiding every separation may relieve their distress in the moment, but over time, it can make separation feel increasingly impossible.

None of this means parents caused the symptoms, or that they should withhold comfort, reassurance about genuine safety concerns, or necessary medical care. It means they have an opportunity to help interrupt some of the patterns that develop around the illness.

And sometimes, particularly during an acute flare, a child may not have the capacity to tolerate these challenges yet. This is where working with a therapist trained in OCD and exposure and response prevention (ERP) can help families figure out when to encourage, when to accommodate temporarily, and how to make changes gradually.

The goal isn’t to eliminate your child’s discomfort. It’s to help them build the confidence and capacity to navigate it, without feeling like they’re doing it alone.

Support the whole family

Whenever possible, make room for your child to just be a kid. When so much of family life revolves around symptoms, appointments, and treatments, it can be easy for an illness to become the center of everyone’s attention. Finding opportunities for play, connection, friendships, and ordinary family routines can help remind children that they’re more than what they’re going through.

And parents need support in this process, too. Watching your child change seemingly overnight is frightening. You’re trying to find answers, manage appointments, advocate at school, and figure out how to respond to behaviors that may be entirely new to your family! Sleep, nutrition, help at school, and support for exhausted parents belong in the plan too.

We don’t have every answer. We can still listen carefully, take the symptoms seriously, and work together on a plan.

A child can need medical treatment and psychological support. A parent can advocate fiercely for answers while also learning how to respond differently at home. These aren’t competing approaches. They’re different pieces of the same puzzle.

Shout out to Alana for adding her wisdom.

Alana’s Website

https://www.alanakivowitz.com/


Friday, October 23, 2026

What Would You Do If......? A Problem Solving Activity

 

What Would You Do If.....?

Today’s topic is about an important activity that you can do with your child that teaches them to be “problem solvers”.

I lived in New York back in the early eighties. It was a different city back then. At one point there was a rash of home break-ins and burglaries. A friend of mine who was an actress obsessed quite a bit about this. She went as far as rehearsing made up scenes for any given situation to avoid being frozen by fear.

Go figure, one day someone did break into her apartment. She went right into her pre-rehearsed mode. Figuring that acting a bit cuckoo would get any ‘bad guy’ off balance, she immediately broke into the character that she had prepared.

In a loud, shrill British accent she yelled, “Welcome!!! Would you like to stay for tea?” She would have made the Mad Hatter proud. She went on with a list of options. “Would you like herbal or black? I have delicious honey from local bees!” As expected, the intruder was completely caught off guard. He mumbled something, turned and ran. Brilliant.

Not that I am recommending that particular course of action, but it highlights the value of advanced planning.!

Years ago, the concept that everyone would carry around an individual cell phone seemed as futuristic as the communicators on Star Trek. Now of course it is hard to imagine how we got along without them. It was, however, the lack of the cell phone that prompted me to create a game that became a favorite in our family.

It must have been 1994 and I was on my way to pick up Alana from preschool. She was about 4 years old at the time. It was one of ‘those days’. I was uncharacteristically running late. Then I got stuck in terrible traffic. To compound things, I took some random turns to try to make my way around the congestion and ended up utterly lost. (Remember that this was also before Google maps or GPS.) My stomach was in a knot and I wondered what my younger daughter would do when mommy was late picking her up. It turned out that she was calmly waiting for me in the office, but that was the day that the “what would you do if” game was created. It was all about building on the concept of planning in advance for an assortment of situations. It went something like this:

I would ask a question such as, “What should you do if mommy is late picking you up? What are some of the choices? Which is the best one?”

Getting a teacher or trusted adult to wait with her or take her to the office was clearly the right answer and I praised her for figuring that out on her own. Alana loved this game. We created all sorts of situations:

“ What if we were at a store and you couldn’t find me?

Alana: “ I would go to the check out and ask them to page you.”

We never made it too simple...

Mommy :”What if they refused?”

Alana :”I would demand to talk to the manager”

Our scenarios covered any number of little emergencies including earthquakes, fires, and getting lost or separated. The better you are at problem solving, the easier it gets to improvise.

This game came in handy more than once. The shining example that comes to mind happened after years of playing this game. Alana and I were walking the dog on the beach one day. I had donated blood earlier that morning and didn’t realize how foolish I was for doing anything strenuous. I got very light headed and ended up down on the sand trying hard not to completely pass out. Alana was ten at the time and she went right into problem solving mode. We did have cell phones at this point. She got the dog on the leash, patted some water on my forehead and calmly called daddy. I could vaguely hear her talking. “Mommy fainted...I think she is okay.”

The game was such a success that my sister taught it to her kids. Hers had an interesting spin because they lived in Alaska at the time:

“What would you do if you saw a bear?”

“What would you do if a moose wandered into the yard?”

There were actually times when these things happened, and my nephews were able to act calmly and appropriately!

Kids these days should perhaps know what do to if there is a coyote encounter!

Topics can range from handling a bully to getting separated on Muni. Being prepared for unexpected situations can be invaluable.

If your child finds themselves without you and in need of assistance, finding a grown up wearing a uniform is often a valid option for some of the difficult situations. Finding a parent who has a child with them and asking them for help, might be another safe option.

This game is meant to empower. It is wonderful for some kids, but could be terrifying for others. You need to assess your child’s temperament before playing. Either way, identify a problem or situation. Start with simple, less scary ones. Discuss all the possible solutions and then agree what the best plan should be for any given situation.

Stressful situations happen. Teaching your child to take a deep breath and use their problem solving skills is one of those things you can do now that can have lasting implications for them when they grow up. Even teaching a very young child to dial 911 in an emergency can be life saving!

You have to figure out if this will be empowering for your child as it was for Alana. My daughter Lauren was NOT a fan. In fact, I remember one day when Lauren and I were taking a walk, I tripped on something, stumbled and fell. I was perfectly fine, but Lauren’s reaction was to start screaming. As she says, “mommies aren’t allowed to fall”. Every kid is different. As your child grows, the situations that you might want to bring up will increase in scope.

It saddens me that we have to be prepared for things other than losing track of our kids on Muni, but that is the world we live in.

Have a family plan in place in case of an emergency. In an extreme situation, if someone other than one of the regular people is going to pick up your child, consider having a family “safe word” so that they know they were sent by you.

Do you have your earthquake/emergency kit ready? Does it include adequate diapers, medications, pet food? Where will everyone meet up if home is not a safe option? Find out from your school what kind of emergency plans they have in place. Teach your kids to get in the habit of looking for emergency exits, especially for your older kids who are at a concert, theater or a club. (sigh…can’t keep them in a bubble no matter how tempting that might be)

Here is another thing that you may not have considered. What if you lost your cell phone or it ran out of batteries and you don’t happen to have a charger? Do you know important phone numbers, or do you count on speed dial? Having a list of important numbers in an accessible place is a good idea for everyone.

Adults need to learn to be problem solvers also. Some people are much better at this than others. For instance, if you got in a fender bender, what would you do? Many folks would just freeze and panic. What should you do?

  • Assess for injury; call 911 if needed

  • If you are on a highway, wait for assistance. Getting out of the car is often dangerous!

  • Do you have an AAA membership? Know where the card is.

  • Know where your insurance info is kept (make sure you have a copy accessible)

  • Take a photo of any damage

  • Take a photo of the other driver’s insurance card and driver’s license...etc.

  • Always have a charger in your car for your cell phone so that a low battery is never an issue.

I think that the “what would you do” exercise is actually something that you might want to do with a nanny or caretaker. Training to keep calm in any type of emergency situation is essential.

I was in LA this week with my grandsons. While we were there we went to a local street fair. It was crowded and the kids were eagerly scampering from activity to activity. Here was a wheel to spin to get little prizes, over there was a fire truck that you could climb on. Even with two parents and two grandparents, keeping track of the kids was a challenge.

It made me realize that it is time to start playing the ‘What would you do game” with the next generation.

“EJ, What would you do if you all of a sudden didn’t see any of your grown ups?”

(Parents…consider writing your cell phone number on a sticker, or bracelet before being in a crowded situation)

Having a plan in advance could help most people keep from panicking.

Preparation is power!

Friday, October 16, 2026

The Pie Theory of LIfe 2026

 




I was recently at my 50th high school reunion. It was a joy to reconnect with many old friends.

I have remained closely in touch with a remarkable number of them, but for others, there was a lot of catching up to do.

I found myself explaining my pie theory more than once.

If you are one of my newer readers, you might be wondering what on earth I am talking about.

The Pie Theory of life

Imagine that your identity is a circle (or whole pie). Who you are is divided into many pieces; some pieces are large, some small, some temporary. Some are constants that are with you life long, some are optional, some are good for your soul, while still others are energy sappers that give you little in return.

Are you:

  • Daughter?

  • Son?

  • Sibling?

  • Friend?

  • Spouse?

  • Ex spouse?

  • Grandparent?

  • Student?

  • Volunteer?

  • Pet owner?

  • In a job/occupation, seeking one or newly retired?

  • Doing a hobby that takes time and energy?

  • Member of a book club or any club for that matter?

  • Churchgoer?

  • Exerciser?

  • House cleaner?

  • Carpool driver?

  • Event planner?

  • Adventure seeker?

  • Avid sports fan?

  • and of course last but not least....Parent?

The list goes on and on. What activities make up your day, your week, your month, your year? What pieces make up your pie? Take a few moments to figure it out. Get a piece of paper and a working pen (if you can find one) and create your pie.

Your pie is finite. You can only do and be so much, as there are only so many hours in the day.

Some folks have too many things competing for time and attention, and figuring out which pieces can be compressed can be quite stressful. Sometimes we make poor choices.

Some folks don’t actually have enough pieces to begin to fill the shell. A big empty pie can be just as unsettling as a full one.

(For busy working parents this might be a foreign concept)

Have you ever noticed that when you are super busy you can manage to get through an entire to-do list very efficiently? On the other hand, on a quiet day you may have only one or two things on the list but somehow nothing gets done.

It’s interesting to think how you can be identified in different ways by the various pieces of pie regardless of how big they are.

When I am out and about, I still get occasionally recognized as Nurse Judy, even though I have been retired for years.

When we still had our golden retriever, around the neighborhood I was recognized as Java’s mom

Now when I pick up my grandson EJ from school, I am known as EJ’s grandma.

A healthy pie has plenty of interesting pieces that can grow and shrink according to your needs. The more forgiving and elastic the pieces, the easier time you will have finding a good balance.

Your pie will naturally change from year to year, but some changes are enormous. Some people are comfortable having a very crowded pie, while others are quite fine and happy doing nothing at all. Part of this is figuring out what your ideal is, and working towards that.

Any large sudden changes to your pie will make you feel unsettled, way less so if you have a glimmer of what is going on; hence this theory.

When there is a large shift in your pieces my girls and I refer to this as “pie disequilibrium.” Common culprits might include:

Event planner: Folks planning a wedding or large event can spend months dealing with all the fun details. When the event is over, that planner piece is gone, your pie has a gap.

Caregiver: Folks that spend much of their time and energy tending to someone else’s needs might find themselves suddenly with a large vacuum when that person is gone or no longer needs them.

Parent: Huge life changes will create seismic shifts. Nothing will ever match the enormous transitions that take place when you add the parent piece to your pie. My best advice to you as you shuffle all your pie pieces and see how things fit comfortably is to identify pieces that need to be protected so that they don’t get too small.

As your children grow up it can be a tough adjustment when they are no longer quite as dependent. (don’t worry, they still love you.) Luckily this happens in stages. Kindergarten...a full day of school...college. Parents who have the “parent piece” taking up the entire pie may feel a twinge when their kids don’t need them in quite the same capacity. You will also find that your role vastly changes when school is in or out of session.

If you are lucky enough to have a partner, DO NOT IGNORE THEM!

Protect that piece. Get creative and make sure that you have time for the two of you; have some moments being a couple.

DO NOT IGNORE YOUR OWN NEEDS!

Being the best parent that you can be includes living by example. Let your kids have parents that are multifaceted and not consumed by any one thing (be that parenting or a job.)

At the class reunion, I found myself evaluating and discussing my own pie as I caught my old friends up on my current life and learned what they were up to.

I have a lot of gratitude that I have a pretty delicious pie:

  • Lovely down time with my husband

  • Visits with grandchildren

  • Traveling

  • Working on random blog posts

  • Writing my book (just about wrapping that up. The next big pie piece will be figuring out what to do with it!)

  • Monthly canasta

  • Learning Mah jong

  • Book group/reading

  • Walking and lunching with friends

  • Practicing piano for the first time in years

Sometimes simple awareness is the first step to having a balanced, interesting and fulfilling pie! Even simple things can impact your pie more than you might expect. If you are feeling out of balance take a look and see if you can figure it out.


Friday, October 2, 2026

Carbon Monoxide/ Do you have a working CO detector?

 BEEP. It was a shrill chirp. BEEP, there it was again. It didn’t take long for us to figure out that it was our carbon monoxide detector signaling that it had come to the end of its life. The display even said END (no need to evacuate.) It had lasted exactly ten years. Time to replace it.

It was also a good reminder to update this post.

We are still enjoying nice weather, but winter is right around the corner.

What is Carbon Monoxide?

Carbon monoxide is a colorless, odorless and tasteless poison gas that can be fatal when inhaled. It can be referred to by its chemical symbol CO. CO binds to hemoglobin with much greater affinity than oxygen, forming carboxyhemoglobin (COHb). This compound is hundreds of times more efficient than oxygen at attaching to the cells, so even small amounts can deprive our bodies of vital oxygen.

Here is an important consideration. Normally if someone is deprived of oxygen they may look pale or cyanotic (bluish); in the case of CO poisoning, the color will remain nice and pink.

Also, a standard pulse oximeter may not be an accurate indicator of whether or not there is a problem.

One of our local ER docs who allowed me to pick his brain added that one of the tricky things about CO poisoning is that the symptoms are very vague and nonspecific. If carbon monoxide exposure is suspected, a specific blood test should be done to check the carboxyhemoglobin level.

A faster than normal heart rate (tachycardia) is the only really reliable physical exam finding.

Mild exposure might cause slight headache, nausea, vomiting and fatigue. Of course, this can easily be mistaken for flu or viral syndrome.

Medium exposure symptoms would be a throbbing headache, drowsiness, confusion and a rapid heart rate.

Extreme exposure will lead to unconsciousness, seizures, and cardio-respiratory failure that usually is fatal. The effects of exposure can vary greatly from person to person depending on age, overall health, and the concentration and length of exposure. In severe cases, for folks who survive an exposure, it can cause irreversible brain damage by starving the brain of oxygen.

Young children and pets are thought to be especially vulnerable.

Pregnant women should also be especially careful because the fetus can be seriously impacted.

More than 400 Americans die each year from unintentional, non-fire-related carbon monoxide poisoning, alongside over 100,000 emergency department visits and 14,000 hospitalizations

More people need to be aware of the risks!

How many of you own a carbon monoxide detector?

If you do, good for you. Make sure that it is in good working order. The units do not last forever. In some of the older units, batteries need to be changed annually (at least) and some units suggest that you vacuum the cover monthly to remove accumulated dust.

If you are one of the many who do not yet own one, please remedy that immediately.

It has been the law in California for 25 years and yet somehow there are still people who aren’t aware of the need to own one. Homes with a fireplace, attached garage, or any gas appliances are at higher risk.

If you are renting and there is not a unit in your apartment, call your landlord immediately and get that remedied.

Note: All-electric homes with no attached garage or fuel-burning devices are exempt

What to do if the alarm goes off

A carbon monoxide alarm is similar to a smoke detector because it monitors the air in your home and sounds a loud alarm to alert you of trouble.

However, the way you respond to a CO alarm is very different from a smoke detector.

When a smoke detector goes off, it is pretty easy to judge the level of danger. You can see or smell the smoke.

On the other hand, because CO is completely undetectable to your senses, you are dependent on the alarm to let you know there is a problem.

If the alarm sounds:

Operate the test/reset button

Call 911

Immediately move to fresh air (make sure that everyone in the household is accounted for.)

Do not go back in until you have the ‘all clear’ from the emergency responders.

Concentrations of CO between 1 and 30 ppm can often occur in normal, everyday conditions. See the chart below for CO levels and corresponding symptoms.

A friend of mine is a lawyer who was involved in a heartbreaking case where a guest at a Bay Area hotel sustained long term health impairment from an exposure.

The victim’s room was above the hotel pool and a faulty boiler used to heat the pool vented carbon monoxide into his room. When he didn’t show up for dinner, his friends found him unresponsive.

It was a very alert physician in the emergency room who figured out the cause. It was only at that point that the hotel was evacuated.

This is not an isolated incident. As a result, my lawyer friend got in the habit of taking a portable detector along with him anytime he traveled!

Because heaters and fireplaces are often involved, exposure is usually higher during the winter months. Outdoor appliances, such as grills, and even generators, need to be properly vented and should not be used indoors.

If you have a generator as part of your safety plan (not a bad idea for earthquake or fire related power outages), it is essential to make sure that it is properly ventilated.

My personal CO stories

My first experience with a Carbon Monoxide alarm was back in 2007. I was at my family home in Pittsburgh and my dad had died several days earlier.

My sisters and I were all staying at the house when on that cold November night, we were woken up by a shrill alarm.

We frankly had no idea what it was.

After searching around a bit we found that it was the carbon monoxide detector going off.

We weren’t sure of the correct action plan, but to play it safe we called 911 and huddled outside on the front porch until the firemen arrived.

They went through the house with all of the monitors and everything seemed safe.

Our best guess was that it was my physicist dad on the other side trying to figure out how things worked.

I kid you not, the very next night the smoke detector went off for no apparent reason.

Radios and lights were turning on and off.

In our family, we just shrugged; these types of incidents are not isolated; I am currently writing a book about this side of my life.

After that encounter, I educated myself about carbon monoxide alarms.

Several years later when my daughter Alana was still living in Michigan, her CO alarm went off and she knew enough to get outside and call 911 immediately.

After the fact she recounted her conversation with the fireman who had responded:

“I am worried about my cats, can you help get them out?”

“What do they look like?

“They LOOK LIKE CATS!”

Happily the kitties were all safely brought out of the apartment. The best guess for what set off the alarm was something faulty with the air conditioning system.

It went off several times with no clear source identified, which prompted her to move to a different apartment.

You may not think that your home is at risk, but there is NO downside to investing in an alarm (plus you are complying with the law.)

Friday, September 25, 2026

Covid in 2026/ What does it look like now

 

Covid 19 versus covid 2026

Back in 2019 when covid first showed up it was terrifying enough that it shut the world down for several years.

The virus was completely new to humans, no one had natural immunity and there were no vaccines to protect us. Millions of people died. Just being exposed was down-right terrifying.

The picture changed as immunity from vaccination and past infections grew, treatments arrived, and the virus continued to evolve. COVID is still contagious and can still be serious, but most healthy people who get it these days now recover at home. Of course, it is not the least bit pleasant, but the diagnosis, generally no longer fills people with the same type of utter dread.

We are in the midst of a wave right now. You probably know someone who has COVID or just got over it. So we figured it was time to review all the things you need to know.

What does COVID look like these days?

  • Sore throat (occasionally a REALLY intense one)

  • Congestion and runny nose

  • Cough (dry or productive)

  • Fatigue and exhaustion

  • Headache

  • brain fog

  • Fever or chills

  • Muscle and body aches

  • Loss of taste or smell is still possible, but it’s not the hallmark it once was. (Loss of smell or taste can still happen, but it is less dependable as a clue than it was early in the pandemic.)

COVID can also cause nausea, vomiting, or diarrhea. Keep in mind that other viruses can be behind the GI symptoms. Unlucky households can have two infections at once.

Is it COVID, flu, or another virus?

Flu tends to arrive abruptly with fever and body aches. In other words it hits you like a mack truck! COVID generally comes on slower.

Both can make a patient feel miserable, and both can occasionally cause serious illness. A test is more useful than trying to identify the virus by the exact flavor of symptoms.

When to test?

  • If you have suspicious symptoms or have been exposed, a home antigen test is a good place to start. It is especially important if the patient has a risk factor that might make treatment relevant. If you have someone vulnerable in the household, that is another reason to be extra careful. Perhaps you have a birthday party next week or upcoming travel. Sometimes it is important to know! Fortunately it is pretty easy to test. We have come a long way from the pandemic days.

  • Be aware that negative test on day one does not rule COVID out. Repeat it 48 hours later if symptoms continue. Testing can also distinguish COVID from flu when a treatment decision is on the table. There are over the counter tests available now that can detect Covid, flu & RSV all with one nasal swab.

  • If the patient looks significantly ill, we don’t care what the test says, check in with your doctor.

Symptomatic treatment

For most people, this looks a lot like caring for any other respiratory virus:

Hydration is essential. Sometimes a dose of Tylenol or Advil can ease throat discomfort and make it easier to drink.

Honey is great for the throat and or cough. Remember no honey for anyone under a year.

Humidifiers can also be useful

See below for more useful links.

Who needs treatment?

Technically speaking, most healthy children do not need an antiviral for COVID or flu. Supportive care is enough. That being said, Dr. Ted finds it very useful to start Tamiflu early for his patients that test positive for flu. It is low risk and it shortens the symptoms. There are no age restrictions.

On the other hand, he does not jump into offering Paxlovid quite as quickly, especially for a normal, healthy child. For one thing, Paxlovid only becomes an option for eligible patients aged 12 and older who weigh at least 88 pounds.

If you decide to treat, it must be started within five days of symptom onset. Another thing to pay attention to is that along with the side effect of a very nasty taste in your mouth, it has many medication interactions.

“Do we really need the COVID shot?”

Dr. Ted gets this question all the time. Here’s how he answers it:

For a generally healthy older child, I don’t feel strongly about whether a family chooses this season’s COVID vaccine. It can lower the chance of getting COVID for a while, although that protection fades. I feel more strongly about vaccinating babies and toddlers, children at higher risk of serious illness, and children who live with someone vulnerable.

I feel differently about the flu shot. I recommend it every year for children who are old enough to receive it. In my experience, flu can hit otherwise healthy kids hard, and vaccination makes a meaningful difference.

Officially, for the 2026–27 season, the American Academy of Pediatrics recommends an updated COVID vaccine for

  • all children 6 through 23 months old. Just like the flu shot, as soon as babies turn 6 months, they should get 2 injections separated by 4 weeks. After the first season, only one shot is required.

  • Any child who has never been vaccinated

  • children and teens 2 through 18 years old who are at increased risk of severe COVID,

  • people with certain medical conditions

  • Anyone who lives with someone at high risk.

People not on that list can still receive it after a discussion with their clinician. In other words, you can just ask for it. Insurance usually covers an annual vaccine.

The vaccine’s strongest benefit is protection against serious illness; it is not a promise that you or your child will never catch COVID.

When can my child return to school or daycare?

The CDC advises staying home until symptoms have been improving overall for at least 24 hours AND any fever has been gone for 24 hours without meds.

For the next five days, take extra care around others: consider air filters, a mask if your child can wear one, and avoid close contact with people at higher risk.

A lingering cough alone does not necessarily mean a child must miss weeks of school. Check your school or daycare policy, which may have its own rules, and keep a child home if they are too ill to participate in activities.

It is annoyingly common for a cough to linger easily for 21 days. This happens with any virus.

When you get past the 21 day mark, it is reasonable to check in with your doctor if that cough is persistent.

How does COVID spread, and how can we protect others at home?

COVID spreads mainly through the air we share, especially indoors. Opening windows, improving ventilation, and wearing a well-fitting mask when practical can reduce exposure. Having a good Hepa filter can make a huge difference.

If someone at home has COVID, try to give them their own space and avoid close face-to-face time with an infant, an older adult, or anyone at higher risk. Don’t bother trying to turn your home into a sterile operating room; clean air and less close contact do more to prevent the spread than wiping every doorknob.

Reality check: We know that it is challenging to keep siblings apart and a parent with covid, might love to say “peace-out” and go hide in their room, but it isn’t usually a valid option. Do the best you can.

What about long COVID?

Long COVID means symptoms that persist or emerge after the initial infection, such as fatigue, trouble concentrating, headaches, or exercise intolerance. It remains a nightmare for those dealing with it.

It can happen in children, although estimates vary and most children who get COVID do not develop it. If your child is still not back to their usual self 12 weeks later, tell your doctor.

Frequently asked questions

Can you COVID again and again?

Yep. Just like the flu, prior infection offers some protection, but it does not make anyone immune to future infections. (sorry)

Does a positive test mean the patient is infectious

Not necessarily. The return-to-activity guidance is based primarily on symptoms, not a required negative test.

In conclusion:

Most healthy people recover well with fluids, rest, and time. We still take COVID seriously when a patient is struggling to breathe, cannot stay hydrated, or has a condition that makes severe illness more likely.

Useful links

Colds and Coughs

Fevers

Tylenol/Advil/dosage charts/How to choose

ER/Urgent care options

Tummy Bugs 101

More resources

CDC testing: https://www.cdc.gov/covid/testing/index.html ;

CDC preventing the spread

AAP 2026–27 vaccine guidance