Please note that even when you feel like you have successfully put this behind you, it is possible for mini relapses to occur with little illnesses or increased stress.
There are so many different factors to consider when facing most of the common parenting issues. The Nurse Judy approach is a combination of many years of medical experience, a desire to treat things as naturally as possible, a large dollop of common sense. email nursejudysf@gmail.com to be added to my weekly email list
Thursday, May 12, 2016
Bed-wetting
Please note that even when you feel like you have successfully put this behind you, it is possible for mini relapses to occur with little illnesses or increased stress.
Friday, May 6, 2016
Night Terrors/Update with new treatment option
Night Terrors/Update with new treatment option 5/16
Night terrors rank up there with things that are pretty horrible for parents, but ultimately usually not dangerous. If you want to practice your Latin, they are also known as Pavor Nocturnus. These are not your typical nightmares. Your child might wake up screaming and thrashing. They may be sweating, wide eyed and terrified. Their hearts are racing. They seem frantic but you can't calm them down. No one is going to sleep through this. Except your child. They seem awake, but they won't remember a bit of this.
Your job is simple. Keep them safe until this passes. Of course there are some conflicting opinions about how to handle these. If your child is small, I have found that it is helpful to try to swaddle them with a big sheet. Think straight jacket! Hold the sheet wide and try to wrap around the thrashing arms until they are snuggled tightly. Sing quietly until they are calm. If you can't manage that, just make sure they don't hurt themselves until it is over. These rarely last longer than 20 minutes. Bigger kids might get even wilder if they feel restrained so see if you can put a comforting hand on them, but mostly you are just being present.
If your child is toilet trained, see if you can manage to walk them to the bathroom and have them pee. Believe it or not, that might settle them down.
Pediatric night terrors happen to between 1-6% of kids. The typical age range is 3-12 years of age. There seems to be a genetic component. If you put your parents through this yourself, it is payback time. I think I may have had a few younger patients over the years that had bouts of these, but with really young infants, a sudden wake up is more likely from gas pains or something illness related.
These tend to happen in intervals and you may have days or weeks with frequent episodes and then they go away. It is worth trying to figure out if there is some extra stress or changes going on. Are they on any new medications? Any change in their diet? Lots of extra sugar perhaps? Are they overtired? Have they been watching any over-stimulating videos, movies or games (if they are in the room when an adult is playing or watching something, that counts)? If night terrors are happening on a routine basis and there is no obvious cause it is worth having them checked out by their physician. Some kids who are plagued with these for an extended period might have sleep apnea at the root of the problem.
Unlike dreams or nightmares, night terrors do not occur during the REM sleep. They usually occur during a phase of the sleep cycle that comes about 2-3 hours after falling asleep. If you are going through a stretch where you dealing with them nightly, some experts suggest breaking the cycle by waking your child about 15 minutes before they routinely occur (this would be a fine time to walk them to the bathroom for a "dream pee.") This assumes that you are on a regular bedtime routine and the terrors are happening roughly at the same time nightly.
Take comfort in knowing that extensive studies have found absolutely no correlation between kids with night terrors and an increase in occurrence of psychiatric disorders.
NEW INFO
A new product came on the market in 2016, called the Lully Sleep Guardian. This is the first device scientifically proven to stop night terrors. One of the founders of the company grew up with a twin sister who suffered from these. He understands as well as anyone how disruptive they can be.
Friday, February 19, 2016
Vicks VapoRub on the feet (update)
Seasons come and go. Occasionally I find something that seems to work well for patients, but then the illnesses quiet down and I don’t think about it much. With all the never ending coughs plaguing my patients and families, I recently added a link in the “what’s going around section”. The link was to one of my earliest posts about the benefits of putting Vicks Vaporub on the feet. Several dozen folks clicked through and followed up with feedback that this seemed to be the difference maker. The kids had much quieter nights without nearly as much coughing. With cold season in full force, it seems like it is worth updating and re-posting.
One of my mom readers who is also a physician shared the following warning from a physician reference called Up To Date and it is certainly worth adding to this post.
Friday, January 29, 2016
Zika Virus
This week we received a health advisory from the public health department regarding the Zika virus. There are 3 categories of announcements from the health department:
- A health update provides us with updated information regarding a situation; these are unlikely to require immediate action
- A health advisory may or may not require immediate action
- A health alert conveys the highest level of importance and does require immediate action
http://www.cdc.gov/zika/
Friday, January 22, 2016
Cradle cap/Nurse Kenlee's tips
Friday, November 6, 2015
Parapertussis/Whooping cough's milder cousin
Friday, July 31, 2015
Cord care
Cord care
Before birth, the umbilical cord is the connection between the baby and the mother through which the baby receives nourishment and oxygen. After birth it becomes useless. By the time the baby is several weeks old, this is something you will likely never think about again, but right after birth it deserves a bit of attention.
You may have heard of cord banking. Cord banking is a trend that comes in and out of fashion. The idea is to save your baby’s stem cells as an insurance policy in case there is a future medical need. In theory it is great. Unfortunately it is very expensive and it is hard to predict if the bank you choose will still be around in the future should you need it. At the time of this post, very few of my patients opt to do this, but it is worth checking to see if there are any updates.
The optimal timing for clamping the umbilical cord after birth has also been a subject of controversy and debate. There is a current trend to delay clamping for a few minutes after birth. It is best to discuss this with your OB ahead of time. The important thing is simple that the baby is tended to. If everything is stable, by all means, delay the clamping for a moment or two. If for some reason the baby needs attention, the clamping is done immediately, and you don’t get that extra time, please don’t focus on this as something to fret about. I imagine your baby's chances of becoming president one day won’t hinge too closely on how quickly they got their cord clamped!
Whenever it occurs, the umbilical cord is clamped and cut close to the baby's body. There are no nerves in the cord, so this is a painless procedure.
The cord clamp should be removed prior to leaving the hospital. It is a good idea to double check. I have occasionally seen newborns discharged with the clamp still on. Once the clamp is off, an umbilical stump remains attached to your baby's navel.
There is not much you need to do to care for it. Often, the less you fuss with it, the sooner it will fall off. It tends to fall off between 7-17 days (not everyone follows those rules.) At some point it will be hanging by a thread and you will see who the lucky person is on diaper duty when it finally comes off.
There are newborn diapers that have the little cutouts that are very useful. This helps you avoid having the cord rubbed and irritated. Hopefully you won’t need more than a few boxes of those. If you have a larger baby who is too big for size one, just roll down the diaper to avoid rubbing.
We want to keep the area dry so no actual submerging the baby in a tub until it falls off. Sponge baths can get the job done. Yes, babies get some pee and poop on there, don’t freak out. Just clean it as best as you can. If the cord gets a foul odor (trust me, you will know if it is smelly or not) call your pediatrician to get it checked out. A stinky cord can be a signal that the baby has an infection (called omphalitis.) The docs will do a good cleaning and get in there in a way that the parents often aren’t comfortable doing. If needed, the doctor may apply silver nitrate. This is a chemical that cauterizes the area. That will leave a grayish/black discoloration around the area that may take a few weeks to fade. It may take more than one application for the cord to be healed.
Once in a while a small piece of the cord stays in place. This is called a granuloma. If the baby is acting perfectly fine in every other respect, there is no need to rush in, but your doctor will want to take a look if things are not healing up. A persistent granuloma will usually need attention.
Once the cord is off, it is normal for the area to continue to ooze a bit for another week or so. It is quite common to have a bit of green or yellow stain on the diaper or shirt. Sometimes there is also what looks like blood. Unless there are actual drops of blood coming from the cord, I am not concerned about little staining. At this point you can clear around the area with a bit of alcohol and a dab of Neosporin.
Another thing that parents might call about are umbilical hernias. An umbilical hernia occurs when part of the intestine protrudes through the umbilical opening in the abdominal muscles. Umbilical hernias are common and typically harmless. They are most common in infants, but they can affect adults as well. In an infant, an umbilical hernia may be especially evident when the infant cries or strains causing the baby's belly button to protrude. This is a classic sign. Some of these are as big as golf balls. Usually this resolves on its own. As long as you can gently push the belly button back in, it is not a concern. If you have an inconsolable baby and the area seems to be stuck on the outside, that would need an immediate evaluation.
Before you know it, that cord will be off and most likely you won’t be giving much thought about your kid’s navel until they are teenagers and begging for permission to get it pierced. (It is also quite possible that when they turn that C in geometry into an A you will reluctantly give your blessing, as we did with our daughter Lauren!)