Friday, March 26, 2021

Passover Musings

Passover musings 
 On October 27,2018, the Tree of Life synagogue was attacked Eleven people were killed simply because they were Jewish. Many others were injured. 
 The Tree of Life synagogue happens to be less than a mile away from my childhood home in Pittsburgh Pennsylvania. 
While I did not personally know any of the people who were killed, I knew many people who were directly connected to those who were impacted. 
 The daughter-in-law of one of the victims emerged from the ashes of this tragedy with the agenda to make a difference. 
 In memory and honor of her mother-in-law Joyce Feinberg, she created a program called 2 to the Seder, with the goal that Jewish people who were having the traditional Passover dinner invite at least 2 people to join them who were NOT Jewish. 
In her words, her goal was to push back on antisemitism with love. 
If people from different backgrounds can allow themselves to open up just a bit to connect with one another, might this help? 

 There is too much hate and prejudice in the world. We need to teach our children to do better. This idea completely resonated with me. 
The April following the shooting we opened the doors to our Seder. We were honored to have Muslims, Christians, Buddhists, Hindus, Amish, quite a few atheists. and of course some Jews. 
The conversations that we had that evening were fascinating. Passover is the holiday that celebrates the story of the Jewish people escaping from slavery in Egypt. 
The ritual dinner is called a Seder. For me the Seder is all about tradition. I feel the connection with generations past through the meal, story and the songs that have transcended thousands of years. 
I keep in mind that many Jews over the centuries risked their lives to have a seder when they were living in places where simply being identified as a Jew could be a death sentence. 
 It is also tradition for my husband to point out that the entire story is most likely completely fabricated, at which point I counter that the accuracy of the story isn’t what it is all about. 
It is about gathering with family, celebrating Spring and freedom, and having discussions about how we can end oppression for everyone. 
And of course, the Matzo Balls.
 He then acquiesces with the two little words that keep the marriage humming along - “yes dear.” 
 This holiday has certain smells that embrace me as I am preparing for it: Matzo Ball soup, horseradish, Manischewitz wine, apples and walnuts chopped up to make something called charoset that is meant to represent the mortar that the slaves used. 
I can feel the presence of my mother and grandmother as I putter in the kitchen. One of the parts of the seder is a song that is supposed to be sung by the youngest participant, Ma Nishtana ha Lila ha zeh? Why is this night different from all other nights? 

 While frankly eating matzo and drinking the traditional cloyingly sweet wine is fine for once a year, talking about freedom and oppression should NOT be a topic for just one night. There should not be an ‘Oppression Olympics.’ 
Antisemitism and bigotry are not just reserved for Jewish people. I understand that I have the privilege of being able to ‘blend in’ if I chose to, while most people of color cannot. This week, the country experienced yet another unfortunate display of racism and hatred, this time falling on the Asian community. 
Until everyone can be outside without fear of being belittled or harmed because of who they are, we have work to do. There are so many differences, races, faiths, genders, ages, sexual orientations, abilities, personalities.
 Underneath, we are human beings, mothers, fathers, siblings, grandparents, family members, friends, community members. We need to celebrate the differences instead of attacking them. 
 This year with COVID we are having a small family Seder. Next year, I hope once again to open my doors, have vibrant discussions and link with people from every walk of life. Happy Passover to all who celebrate.

Friday, March 19, 2021

Cleaning up made simple

This week's topic Cleaning up without the battle 

 Here is a post from several years ago that might help you out with your own version of Spring cleaning.
 If you start good habits early on, you will benefit on many levels... 

 Some time ago I had a phone chat with one of the moms of a patient, about some behavior issues. Her daughter was 2&1/2. 
At home, there was an unpleasant amount of parental nagging and child tantrums. Mom was astonished when she spent a few hours at her daughter’s daycare co-op. 
She watched in awe as the kids all immediately followed the request to clean up the toys. 
After lunch, this little group sat nicely, eating their healthy meal and then got up to clear their plates.

 What completely stunned this mom was watching all of the kids line up to compost whatever food scraps there were. Composting! Really?!? 

As she told me, this was a completely different child than the one she had living with her. This is a pretty good example of how important rules and consistency are. 

It is, in fact, not at all uncommon for kids to behave beautifully in some situations and completely act out in others.
 If rules are clear and simple, most kids will follow them. 
As long as rules are in the child’s best interest and reasonable, kids thrive in a consistent environment. Kids need to understand what the rules are. 
 If there are rewards/incentives what are they?
 What are the consequences for not following through? 
 Once the kids are old enough, have them be involved in negotiating the new “official guidelines.” 
What do they think would be a reasonable consequence. 
Are there certain incentives that they would like to work towards? 
 How can you implement this at home?  

Think small. Not everything has to be regimented but let’s address one common area of conflict, such as cleaning up toys, and make it simple. 
 Easier said than done, but try to have an organized system so that putting toys away is straightforward. Know where they came from so that they can be returned to where they belong.
 If you can’t do that, you possibly have too many toys and you should take some of them out of circulation. 
 Large toy boxes/trunks are okay for really large items, but they tend to become a dumping ground. You are better off investing in shelves with different bins. 
Low shelves are for toys that kids can have easy access to. 
Have a designated high shelf area for setting aside toys that need adult involvement. 
 Take a photo of the toy that lives in the bin and glue the image on.
 This can be a family project. (Great rainy day activity!)
 Maybe the picture can include your child holding the toy. 
There can be a box for little cars, a box for dolls, a box for crayons...etc. 
Perhaps have a rule about only 2 or 3 boxes being down at a time until your child shows you that they can manage cleaning up more of a variety. 
 Sorting can be a game. 
Give a transition time: “Ten minutes until clean up." 
“Five minutes until clean up." 

 Some kids may do well with a timer. Everyone needs to understand what the new clean up rules are. When playtime is over, it is time to do the full clean up. 
Put on some music or have a clean up song. 
 Children have a set amount of minutes to put the toys away. 
While you might start by helping out and setting a good example, the ultimate goal is that your kids can do this on their own. 
Make sure that they are doing most of the work. 
When the time is up, make sure you give positive feedback. The toys are safe and ready for the next time they want to play with them. 
If they did NOT clean up, now it is your turn. Anything that you clean up is yours to do with as you please. You can put it high up where the kids don’t have access until they agree to do a better job cleaning up. 

Tell some stories about children who did a good job cleaning up. Parents were so proud! Their toys stayed safe and organized. 
Tell a parallel story about a less successful outcome. Parents ended up doing the clean up and the toys went high up and away. This process eliminates potential sources of nagging: These are the clean up rules; they are clear and simple. Cleaning up is easy. It takes a few minutes. It can even be fun! Kids remain in control of the toys that they put away. Or mommy/daddy can clean up but the toys are gone for a while. Many of our kids have so much stuff (mine were no exception) that you may wish to consider rotating toys.

 If you take something out of circulation for a while it might feel new and fresh when you bring it back. Doing a toy swap with friends is another good way to have an assortment of things to play with that feel new and exciting. Keep in mind that some kids are rougher than others. Don’t lend out anything that you care too much about. It may not come back in the same shape that it went out! 

As Marie Kondo from the popular Netflix series would say, it if doesn't bring you joy, get rid of it. Start small, be clear and consistent, and problem solve so that you don't end up in nagging cycles, to kids who ignore you. Who knows, the next step might be composting!

Friday, March 12, 2021

Eczema management 2021

Eczema/Atopic Dermatitis 
 Kids get a lot of rashes, but the most common diagnosis is probably eczema. 
This is one of those topics that I routinely get questions about year round. It doesn’t appear to have a season. 
 The term eczema is broadly applied to a range of persistent skin conditions. 
There seems to be a hereditary component so it is pretty common for eczema to run in families.
 One piece of good news is that some kids can grow out of it! Some babies have buttery soft skin. Others are not so lucky. 
My patients with the diagnosis of eczema generally have fairly dry skin with rough patches. 
 Learning some basic facts about the skin can help you understand what is going on and how to deal with it. 
For the data nerds among you, the next paragraph is for you; for the rest of you, sorry if this makes your head spin... 
 The top layer of the skin is called the epidermis and the top layer of the epidermis is called the stratum corneum (SC). The SC is incredibly thin but it is the main barrier of the skin. It keeps chemicals that come in contact with the skin from being absorbed into the body, and it keeps fluid inside the skin from leaching out. The SC contains 3 types of lipids that have different chemical compositions and functions; ceramides, cholesterol and free fatty acids. But it gets even more complicated. There are nine different types of ceramides in the SC, conveniently named ceramide 1 through ceramide 9, and they account for 40-50% of the lipids in this outermost layer. Scientists are doing a lot of research on the important function that ceramides play. What they are now discovering is that people with eczema have significantly fewer ceramides in the SC than folks with healthy skin. (Don’t worry there won’t be a test on this.) 

 Skin Care
The obvious focus is to try to re-balance and add back some of those deficient ceramides. Thus, the key to treating basic eczema is moisturizing! Well lubricated skin does not get as itchy and doesn’t break down as easily. It is important to moisturize at least once a day, (twice a day is better!) but there is no downside to greasing up your kid more often than that. It is really important to break that itch cycle. 
Aside from causing misery, scratching can tear the skin, and an infection can occur. 

There are some very good products that can make a big difference. Dr. Lawrence Cheung is my go to dermatologist. He lists the following products as some of his favorites: 
 Cetaphil Restoraderm Cerave Hydrating Cleanser and Moisturizing Cream Aveeno Eczema Therapy.

 Dr. Cheung particularly likes this Aveeno product for hands. With people washing their hands more than ever these days, the dry hands can tend to get rashy.
 The Aveeno does a great job of protecting that can last through several washes. 
 Eucerin and Vaniply are a few other good brands. 

Read the labels and make sure that ceramides are on the list of ingredients. 

 If you like home remedies, my sister-in-law Barbara swears by coconut oil mixed with a bit of tea tree oil. 
A local pediatrician, Dr. Jessica Kaplan, advocates the “greased pajama” method. Put the jammies on right after applying the moisturizer. The pajamas will be a little greasy. As long as they stay clean otherwise, wear those for several nights in a row. 

 People used to recommend infrequent bathing, but it turns out that this is a myth. 
If your child likes their bath, you can give one as often as you like. 
Baths are fine, but sitting in soapy water for extended periods is not such a good idea. 
Let them do their “fun in the tub” session for most of the bath first and then do the actual washing and rinsing with gentle soap and shampoo right before getting out. 

Bubble baths and harsh soaps are pretty high on my list of suspects when I am sleuthing around for the cause of a rash. 
 Some folks find that adding a splash of apple cider vinegar to the bath water (about ¼ - ½ cup for a big tub) is soothing and may even prevent some rashes. 

 Do you have some extra breast milk leftover that is out of the safety range for feeding?
 Dump it in the tub! Milk baths are great for the skin.
 If the eczema is severe, believe it or not, a bleach bath is often recommended by many dermatologists. Here are important steps for giving a bleach bath: 
 Use regular strength (6 percent) bleach for the bath. 
Do not use concentrated bleach. 
 Use plain bleach; avoid those with various scents added. 
 Use a measuring cup or measuring spoon to add the bleach to the bath. 
Adding too much bleach to the bath can irritate your children’s skin. Adding too little bleach may not help. 
 Measure the amount of bleach before adding it to the bath water. For a full bathtub of water, use a half cup of bleach.
 For a half-full tub of water, add a quarter cup of bleach. 
For a baby or toddler bathtub, add one teaspoon of bleach per gallon of water. 

Obviously these are approximate measurements since baths will have varying amounts of water. Never apply bleach directly to your child’s eczema. While the tub is filling, pour the bleach into the water. Be sure to wait until the bath is fully drawn and bleach is poured before your child enters the tub. 

 Talk with your dermatologist about how long your child should soak in the tub. Most dermatologists recommend a five to 10 minute soak. All baths should be followed up immediately with some lotion!!!


 Identify Triggers 
 I tend to refer to atopic dermatitis as ‘reactive skin’. 
It will be under control for a while and then something will come along and ‘flare’ it up. I refer to these as triggers. 

Playing detective and learning to recognize what triggers are aggravating the rash is another important key to management. 
 Triggers can range from changes in temperature, dry air from heating the house, a new detergent, teething or a new food. 
Acidic foods seem to be a big culprit for some kids. 
Berries and citrus are big offenders. 
Dairy and eggs are way up on the list as well. 
When food sensitivity is to blame you will often see chapped cheeks and a red ring around the anal area. 

 Treat inflammation 
 There is absolutely no downside to lots of moisturizing and/ or eliminating the triggers that are flaring up the eczema. But if those measures are not taking care of things, it is really important to take steps to minimize inflammation. 
Think of it in this way - a mild rash is like embers; add inflammation and it becomes a wildfire.
 Once you have an actual fire, the entire body becomes more reactive and even more food reactivity can take place. 
I like to take the natural route as much as possible, but sometimes it is necessary to use medication or topical creams. 
Don’t hesitate to treat and ‘put out the embers before things get out of control’. 
 As I already mentioned, it is essential to minimize itching. 
If your child is doing a lot of scratching, they can break through the skin; infection and inflammation ensue. 
Make sure you keep their nails trimmed to minimize damage to the skin from the scratching. 
 Your doctor will likely suggest an antihistamine. Zyrtec (cetirizine) and Benadryl (diphenhydramine) are the two main brands that we tend to use. 
Benadryl is shorter acting. Most of the time it makes the kids sleepy, but once in a while it has the opposite effect (not something you want to find out at night.) 
Zyrtec is longer lasting and doesn’t tend to cause either the sleepiness or the jitters. 
Although the label will warn you to check with your MD if your child is under 2 years, most pediatricians have no hesitation giving Zyrtec or Benadryl to kids as young as 6 months if necessary.

Both of these  come in a liquid form. There are dosage charts at the bottom of the post. 
 Hydrocortisone creams or ointments can also be used to spot treat especially itchy areas. Start with the weaker over-the-counter strength. 
If that isn’t helping, it would be a good idea to have a doctor take a look.

 There are several options of different prescription strength ointments, creams and oils that can be tried. Most of the time simple eczema can be handled by your pediatrician's office. 

Once in a while complicated cases that are not responding to treatment may end up at the dermatologist. If the eczema is mild to moderate and not responding to simple moisturizing and OTC hydrocortisone, there are prescription medications available that range from topical to injection options and even phototherapy. 
Dr. Cheung mentioned to me that there are all sorts of new treatments now available, with more coming within the next couple of years. 
For severe cases, it is absolutely worth seeing a dermatologist who is current with updated treatment options.

 If you like to think out of the box, I have seen some patients have a big improvement in their skin from some treatments from the folks at Advanced Allergy Solutions. 
They are not the magic wand for everyone, but have been very helpful for many of my patients. 
 There are also some ongoing studies about gut health and eczema; it makes sense that there is a connection. 
The studies are speculating that probiotics containing Lactobacillus might be helpful, but there are no official guidelines yet.
 For your little ones who are eating solid foods, adding fermented foods, and decreasing sugar are easy and worthwhile things to consider. 

 In summary
 Keep your child moisturized daily with one of the recommended lotions or creams 
 Make sure your kids nails are kept short. 
Infants can have little mittens on their hands at night if they are doing a lot of scratching. 
 See if you can figure out what the triggers are and avoid them. Sometimes it is simply cutting out berries. 
 Zyrtec and Benadryl are fine for itching but don’t treat the underlying cause. 
 Don’t be hesitant about treatment.
 In a risk/benefit calculation, taking appropriate steps to decrease the inflammation is the right thing to do 

 Zyrtec Dosage Chart The dose of cetirizine depends on age as below: 
6 - 12 months of age: 2.5 mg given once daily (maximum dose 5 mg daily) 
12 - 24 months of age: 2.5 given once or twice daily (maximum dose 5 mg daily) 
2 - 6 years of age: 2.5 - 5 mg given once daily (maximum dose 5 mg daily) 
Over 6 years of age: 5 - 10 mg given once daily (maximum dose 10 mg daily)
 Zyrtec comes in a 1mg/ml solution (so 2.5 mg = 2.5 ml). There is also a 10mg/ml oral drops preparation (so 5 mg is 1/2 ml). 
Make sure you check the strength of the solution.